How do you get over someone who doesn't appreciate you?

I've been dating this guy for 4yrs off and on and during the 4 yrs i've been cheated on hit verbally abused by this man but i stuck with him through it all he hasn't had a real job in almost a year so i've been footing the bill for every thing rent, food, personals, needs ect but he seems to think i don't do nothing for him so i put him out last night in the cold with no regret now my problem is the hurt feelings i feel about him feeling the way he does about me and how he treated me i know he will miss me because i was a good woman to him i worked 9 to 11 hours a day m-f came home cooked cleaned took care of the kids and him too but i never did any thing for him let him tell it i just wanted to share my feeling today thanks for listening.